Being self-aware enough to notice the self sabotaging patterns that keep you stuck but not being able to break them so you can break through your next income level in your business, is a different kind of hell..
If youâre here, I assume youâre just like my clients.
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Youâre probably hyper self-aware to a fault - with a little bit of perfectionism sprinkled on top that *could* work for you as âhigh standardsâ - but your inaction, doubt, and scarcity would (ironically) never let it get to that.
Yet you keep sabotaging your next success in tiny and stupid waysâŚ
And of courseâŚ. You have a whole list of receipts and achievements in your life that got you really far. Youâre super successful compared to the average.
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But every time you think you have disciplined, will-powered, pushed through a pattern or block thatâs hold you back and finally CONQUERED IT⌠you feel extra defeated and pre-emptively tired when you find out that that same pattern shows up again JUST as you have reached your new level in your business.
You hit a new income goalâŚ.
And immediately wonder
âcan I hold this?â and you self sabotage.
Something amazing happens and you think âis this a fluke?â and you spiral.
You reach a new financial milestone and say to yourself âcan I really do this?â and more negative thoughts.
And you thought youâd
feel different by now.
But youâre not; because your inner demons are holding you back.Â
Inner demons are what I call unsupportive thoughts and unconscious patterns that are working against us in our pursuit of taking our business and life to the next level.
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Whether this is taking your business to $2000 a/month, $5000 a/month, $10,000 a/month, $20,000 a/month, $30,000 months or perhaps even higher - it feels like Judas has entered the chat when the inner-demons come swinging with a newfound force and much more creativity that they had the last round.
The first mistake that you donât even realize that youâre making is you have this idea that patterns are a one-time thing to overcome.
And they can be, absolutely, but what I found to be true as I grew my businesses is that more often than not they just come back in a more expensive jacket and a trendy purse and outfit when you reach YOUR next level that youâve worked so hard for.
Under that is a deep layer of disappointment, and perhaps even victimization, when you realize that youâll have to do this work for the rest of your life if you want to keep growing and leveling up.
You donât want to keep reaching new milestones in your life but still feel this exact same way;Â and thatâs why I created Command.
The good news? You wonât ever have to deal with this and can just stay at the place and income level where youâre at right now.
The bad news is if you want to expand your life experiences, your business to the next financial level is youâll have to deal with this and face this head on and thatâs what Command will do for you.
I know youâve already tried course-hopping and book-binging, podcast-splurging and coach jumping, hoping to find that one Golden answer to get rid of these inner demons forever.
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Your problem was never discipline or lack of will power, your problem is that your inner demons are driving your car of life.
When YOU Command and YOU lead: those inner demons listen.
When YOU donât Command and YOU let THEM lead: those demons lead your life.
And Command is where that ends.
MOST PROGRAMS LIEÂ
Because they try to make you FEEL GOOD IN THE MOMENT
instead of solving this forever.
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What COMMAND does:
I am not going to âenlightenâ your mindset or offer you a one-time-solution.
 đĽI am going to show you the most AMAZING and mind-blowing TOOLS that will change your approach FOR LIFE and for EVERY next level youâre growing into.
đĽI am going to show you how to evolve your response from being paralyzed and overwhelmed by all the information  âĄď¸ TO ACTION that leaves skid marks on the floor from your speed
đĽI am going to guide your experience from being plagued by fears and doubts âĄď¸ TO MAKING THOSE an after thought
đĽI am going to display a new approach that will have you wondering where your confidence has exited the building âĄď¸ TO INFINITE conviction and excitement
đĽI am going to upgrade you from being knocked off of the momentum at any obstacle âĄď¸ TO HOPING more challenges come your way because you ENJOY the growth
COMMAND SHOWS YOU HOW TO TAKE BACK INNER-LEADERSHIP AND ACTUALLY ACT despite what these inner-demons throw at you
đĽ perfectionism evolves into discernment
đĽ people pleasing evolves into emotional intelligence
đĽ catastrophizing evolves into preparedness
đĽ shame evolves into integrity
đĽ avoidance evolves into strategic pacing
And ALL OF IT TURNS INTO BUSINESS GROWTH AND MORE MONEYYYYYY.
THE BIGGEST MISCONCEPTION IS THAT YOUR INNER-DEMONS ARE HERE TO MAKE LIFE HARD FOR YOU.
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They are not, they are trying to keep you safe and PROTECT you.
âŚand I am going to show you THE tools to have them work WITH and FOR you instead of against you.Â
WHO EXACTLY IS COMMAND FOR?
COMMAND is for the high achiever, the high performer and the unconventional bad-ass motherfucker that gets exhausted of her own mind.
The entrepreneur that knows the stop-start-stop-start-again cycle like a f*cking merry go round.
The one that knows EXACTLY what to do but takes weeks or months to do it, only to then compound a sense of shame because it should have been done right away and now so much time has passed and can keep the consistency.
The outside world would have NO idea that you are plagued with these inner-demons,
but if youâre being honestâŚ.
đ Every time you hit a new milestone financially, you completely ghost your business for days because âyou needed to restâ or âthings at home got chaoticâ.
đ Every time you close an amazing deal or sign a new client you get home and start fighting with your partner/kids/family/pets.
đ Every time you mentally build yourself up to action you end up doom-scrolling âjust for 5 minutesâ realizing that your 5 minutes ended up being 4 hours and now youâre energetically drained.
The secret is in understanding that these inner-demons were created to protect you, because at some point in your life they did and succeeded,
but now need to evolve to be up-to-date with your CURRENT life circumstances.
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Inside COMMAND you will learn how to:
âĄď¸Detect self-sabotage before it blooms and have you wonder where time went
âĄď¸Override emotional spirals mid-flight instead of recognizing after the burn down what it destroyed
âĄď¸Move while afraid without drama or internal war (feeling schizzo)
âĄď¸Become someone your old patterns cannot touch
âĄď¸Take action so fast and confident that will have people wonder âwhat is that bitch on and where can I get it too?
âĄď¸Go after it without waiting to "feel ready"
âĄď¸Hold standards when your mood drops
You become someone your FUTURE YOU can trust BECAUSE YOUâRE CREATING THIS FUTURE.
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HI, IâM BARA.
I used to feel EXTREMELY victimized and PERSONALLY assaulted by my inner-demons.
I felt like the Gods have had some secret meeting upon my birth and had decided that these inner-demons will haunt and taunt me for the rest of my life just out of some sadistic pleasure.
I would reach these TOPS and HIGHS in my business
(from East-Europe to making 20/30k months in USA)
and then LIFE would happen and I would have to start all over again only trying to do it **harder** for the lost time that I needed to make up for.
My relationship with the love of my life was on BUTTERFLIES and of course the only natural response was to sabotage my growth in my business. (ghosting my business, not responding, breaking my consistency)
Ending up in a corner with an infant victimized mind wondering âwhy this kept happening to me! Havenât I paid my dues yet? Havenât I suffered enough in life? WHERE IS MY REWARD?!â
After decades of trial and errors, trying on every system in the world, taking what worked, combining it with concepts from other strategies, therapies, religions, psychological foundations AND a bunch of personal genius I can now proudly present: COMMAND.
A WATER-PROOF system that will change your life for EVERY phase and EVERY LEVEL in your business and SOLIDIFY the new identity you are wanting to become;
until that becomes the new baseline and norm.
My life receipts?
âI used to be a world-famous
dom inatrix specialized in extreme psychological subjects where I would consciously place inner-demons inside peoples minds (made over 7 figures)
Now as business coach and I do the opposite.
âI am from East Europe and currently living in America
âI have 100 xâed my income.
âI started competing in archery after only 8 months of training.
âI bought cars cash and gifted my bestie a BMW M4
âI traveled the world
(48 countries and 44 States).
âI have lived in 7 countries.
âI speak 9 languages.
âI successfully mentored people in various disciplines and niches.
âI created a podcast that reached top 5% worldwide within a year, got sued for the name and then created a new podcast (Rich & Hydrated)
âI have created several world-championships of extreme sport events (stunt-riding).
âI have been on The Voice
âI paid over 176k for my greencard process.
âI am 38 yo and a triple Capricorn, a 1/3 manifestor, ennegram 8 AND I do not care about any of these things.
âI have a Belgian Malinois.
âI live FULLY off-grid on a 65-acre property with the love of my life, 6 large dogs, horses, hundreds of chickens, pigs, goats, our own river and mountain.
âI can't remember the last time I have had an alarm wake me up.
I shop without having to check the price tags.
â I had a 4-day wedding with a full rented hotel and catering paid for all guests.
FAQ ABOUT COMMAND
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Self-paced curriculum so you can start INSTANTLY.
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A multiple-module approach: from theory to ACTION.
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All inner-demons described in their patterns, dialogue, language and behavior.
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Super clear and energizing STEPS that show you how to ALCHEMIZE the inner-demons into your BESTIES.
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Real life examples library.
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An approach that will bring LIGHTNESS and FUN into the process (because it's been heavy enough already).